
When you walk into your church on Sunday, stop and say g'day to a child. Look for evidences of grace, (eg. ways of encouraging them).
Sure, I know - 'what do you have to offer them?' 'They think your just a dad anyway'... or 'you have nothing in common'... May I suggest, you are looking to your own comfortability and not at an opportunity to 'feed the lambs"!
I observe myself that children don't seem to be comfortable. Or they are insecure in talking with adult's. Nevertheless stop, and ask them a question about themselves. I tell you what - they will be so encouraged. They might roll their eyes, or say, "i dunnaknow" or "whatever". But I bet they will never forget that you made the effort to speak to them.
Another thing that you can do is, let the child's parents know your observations. For example, my son was with a great mate of mine. They went on an errand and my son and another boy were telling my mate what they wanted to be when they grew up. If they thought about kids and marriage etc... My mate encouraged me with my son's response.

STOP and feed the lambs...
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